We have decided to add this section for couples that are new to toys and have need of some direction with capturing intimacy and developing sex skills.

Suggested toys for beginners

We believe the most important aspect of sexual intimacy is, just that, intimacy!

So, that being said, it is important for a woman to feel loved, charised and safe for great intimacy and sex. Men seem to be much simpler as to what is needed for sex to occur. Men seem to have more hang-ups than actual needs, in order for him to feel fully aroused and confident in the bedroom. (Or anywhere else you may feel so inspired). From penis size to prolonged stamina, can all substantially limit his ability to perform in a way that he would find empowering to his libido. So lets have a little chat from a women` s perspective and put some of these deflating myths out of the bed.

• Penis size 

The average penis length of a healthy male is just over 5 inches in length. The bottom line is that nearly everyone is between four and six inches long. Lets be honest, if you want to have a debate on the topic, us women are much more interested in girth, and even more interested in how you operate your instrument! For those who have a penis under three inches in length, your are some of the lucky guys out there that get to experience with a variety of lengths and girths. Now a days, we have all sorts of extensions that men can purchase and if they choose, a different size every day of the week! Men who are lengthy to begin with, need to be happy with what they have, since women may shy away from the extra long husband. There even may be a need for modification in order to not cause his wife pain, which may become a let down in pleasure. Lets face it, women are only so physically accommodating in this area. Yes, a baby can exit this arena, however again, we are talking about girth here. If a woman see` s her Mr. Extra Long husband approaching, she` s a little frightened that in the heat of the moment, her husband with thrust to hard and actually hurt her.